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intrapersonal communication
within self
interpersonal
btwn ppl
email is
asynchronous
texting and IM is
synchronous
linear view vs two way...
transactional view of human communications
feedforward
info u provide before sending your message
small talk =
phatic comms = a type of feedforward
feedback can be
verbal or nonverbal
metamessage
a msg that refers to another msg
physical, cultural, socio-psychological, temporal ARE ALL
CONTEXTS
vocal, olfactory, visual ARE ALL
COMMUNICATION CHANNELS
NOISE =
ANYTHING THAT interferes with receiving the msg
physical, physiological, psychological and semantic are all
TYPE OF NOISE
SIGNAL TO NOISE RATIO
IS IMPORTANT FOR DETERMINING USEFULNESS OF COMMUNICATION STYLE
NOISE CANNOT BE ELIMINATED BUT ITS
effects can be reduced
effect =
consequence of a communication
communication competence
knowledge and skill with it, competence is culture specific
the competent communicator is
ethical, effective listener, AND HIS COMMUNICATIONS ARE PURPOSEFUL
objective view of ethics
same standards apply everywhere
subjective view of ethics
argues that absolute statements are too rigid
adjustment
communication can take place only to the extent that the communicators adjust to each other by USING THE SAME SIGNALS
Communication accomodation theory -
speakers adjust to or accomadate to the speaking style of their listener in order to gain approval
ambiguity
should be reduced in communication
two levels of comms
content and relationship dimensions, msg is either about content or about relationships
must consider both
the content and relationship aspects of any statement or message
six types of power in comms (pg 15-16)
legitimate power, referent power, reward power, coercive power, expert power, information power
legitimate power
based on position
referent power
others want to be like you, respected
reward power
u control rewards others want
coercive power
u can administer punishments
expert power
u have expertise or special knowledge
information power
u can persuade ppl
comms are punctuated in order to
ogether define each event as either a stimulus or response
communication is inevitable
that means u cannot NOT respond to others msgs, and u cannot NOT send a msg
communication is irreversible
u cannot unsay something
communication is unrepeatable
a communication act can never be duplicated
culture is important to comms because of
demographics, high sensitivity to cultural differences, economic interdependency, comms technology advances,
elements of culture
uncertainty avoidance, masculinity/femininity, power distance aka power distribution, individualism vs collectivism, high and low context aka how important context is to comms,
ethnocentrism aka ethnocentricity
seeing others cultures and actions through your culture's filters
the higher the communication distance, the high the level of
ethnocentrism
looking glass self
how others communicate with you depends on their perception of u
self concept =
social comparions + cultural teachings + self evaluation + other's ratings of you
the 4 selves =
the open self, the (purposely) hidden self, unknown (to anybody) self, blind self (what u dont know that others do know about you)
growing in self awareness is done by
increasing your open self, listening to ppl, seek info about yourself, dialogue with yourself
self esteem
how valuable u think u r, and what u think ur abilities r
ways to increase self esteem
attack self destruct. beliefs, seek out nourishing ppl, work on projects that will result in success, remind yourself of your successes, practice affirmations
self-disclosure
disclosing info about yourself to another person
outing
when the mass media reveals info about someone
dangers of self disclosure
personal risks (what ppl can use against you), relationship risks, professional risks
factors affecting self disclosure are:
personal identity, gender, culture, listeners, topic and channel
rewards of self disclosure
self-knowledge, improved coping, communication enhancement, more meaningful relationships
dyadic effect
u r more likely to disclose when a person around u discloses too
guidelines for making self disclosures:
consider the motivation, appropriateness, the other person's disclosures, potential burdens of self disclosure
guidelines for facilitation/responding to others' self disclosures:
support, reciprocate, confidentiality, don't use them against them
guidelines for resisting pressure to self-disclose
change topic, be assertive
perception
how we interpret the world aka the 'booming buzzing confusing' as psychologist william james called the world
perception has how many stages
5
stage 1 of perception = stimulation
can consist of selective attention, selective perception, selective exposure
stage 2 of perception =
organization, by either rules or schemata or scripts
in stage 2 of perception, organization by RULES can be done according to
either rules of contrast, proximity or similarity
in stage 2 of perception, organization can be by schemata, which are
mental templates or mental structures or paradigms
when organization is by scripts in stage 2 of perception, a script is
a schema that focuses on actions and procedures
interpretation evaluation is stage #
3
memory is stage number
4
recall is stage number...
= stage 5
info recalled can be consistent or inconsistent with
your schema
impression formation is aka
person perception
self fulfilling prophecy
when u help fulfill ur perception of a person
halo effect
when u associate one good quality with others and assume they have them all because they have one good quality
primacy
when what occurred first exerts the most influence
recency
when what occurred last exerts the most influence
we increase our own effectiveness when we understand others'
perceptions
consistency
tendency to maintain balance among perceptions or attitudes
attribution of control
when u focus on explaining why someone behaved the way they did
self serving bias
to take credit for positive and deny responsibility for the negative
overattribution
to single out one or two characteristics of a person and attribute everything that person does to this one or two characteristics
fundamental attribution error
when u overvalue the contribution of internal factors such as personality, and undervalue the contribution of external factors such as situational context or environment...thinking ppl do what they do b/c that's who they are, not because of the situation theyre in...
we all have roles in perception and should avoid
early conclusions
believing the world is fair will make you overemphasize internal factors so beware of the
"just world" hypothesis
perception checking
explore ur thoughts about someone to see if u were really right
to reduce uncertainty about a person
try to watch them when they are under pressure, interact with them, ask others about them
affinity seeking strategies
present urself as relaxed and enthusiastic, active and dynamic
politeness strategies
- balance your negative face and positive face and preserve both
positive face
desire to be viewed positively
negative face
the desire to be autonomous
credibility strategies
to be believed
self-handicapping strategies
to excuse failure in anticipation
to secure help people take part in:
self-deprecating strategies
to hide faults, people use
self-monitoring strategies
to be followed, people use
influencing strategies
to confirm self image, people use
image confirming strategies
listening helps establish and communicate
power
effective listeners can go on to become
leaders
listening is what type of process
circular
in the receiving stage of listening, you have to confront
mixed messaged
disclaiming
asking your listeners to pls receive a msg without prejudice
disclaiming methods are:
hedging, credentialing, sin licenses, cognitive disclaimers, appeals for suspension of judgment (see pg 55)
five stage model of listening process (pg 55)
rcving, understanding, remembering, evaluating, responding
understanding
grasping the thoughts and their accompanying emotional tone
understanding also means to
place the speaker's thoughts in a context and rephrase their ideas if necessary
remembering
is more than reproducing what was said, it is reconstructing it
resist evaluating a Point of view
unless u fully understand it
distinguish facts from
inferences by the speaker
responding occurs in two forms
those u make while speaker talks and those after speaker is done talking
those responses that happen while the speaker is still talking are called:
backchanneling cues
ethical listening
owing the speaker honest responses and evaluating message fairly
take ownership of your responses by responding with
"I" messages
barriers to listening include
physical distractions, mental distractions, biases, lack of appropriate focus, premature judgment
styles of effective listening include
empathic and objective listening, nonjudgmental and critical listening, surface and depth listening, polite and impolite listening, active and inactive listening
listening is situational
meaning it varies with the situation
display rules
culture-specific rules that govern which nonverbal behaviors are appropriate and which are inappropriate in a public setting
the type and breadth of a person's feedback and nonverbal behaviors can be a function of a person's particular:
culture
men want to show their knowledge and women seek to build
rapport
women are better than men at
showing listening cues and showing they are listening
when listening, you have to make adjustments between the
different forms of listening, active or inactive, etc
researcher Tanner argues that men listen less to women than
women listen to men, BECAUSE listening supposedly places an individual in an inferior position
paraphrasing
saying something in your own words
when listening try to capture
the central ideas and main evidence
situation listening is
adaptive
empathic listening
listening to what the person is feeling AND thinking
active listening
sending back to the listener what you think they meant
sensitivity means you
want to decrease the distance between yourself and others
avoidance means you
avoid and limit interactions, especially intimate communication with interculturally different others
1) language ambiguity
..is created by words that have more than one meaning or way to be interpreted
2) relationship ambiguity
...is not knowing the limits of what you can and cant say to your partner or what the future really holds for both of you or how they really feel or how much they know about how you really feel
some cultures show high uncertainty ________
avoidance
Barriers to successful communication include
message overload and message complexity.
message complexity
message too complicated
message overload
(when a person receives too many messages at the same time)
ability to analyze, evaluate and produce messages in the mass media is your
media literacy
when you get blank stares from your listeners, that is still considered a form of
feedback
communication technology has
made modern mass communication more potent
the receiver is a decoder and the sender is the
encoder
the transactional model is the one that defines ppl as
either encoders or decoders at any given time
five basic purposes of communications
play, help, relate, learn, influence
small group communications refers to groups of
5-10 people
public communications refers to groups of
11 or more people
interpersonal communication happens with people you
already know or have some sort of relationship with
looking glass self is a concept that has to do with how your ________ see you
closest friends and family
self disclosure is
info voluntarily shared with others
one reason for self disclosure in a relationship is
relationship development
in the stimulation stage of perception, that is where we choose
an event to perceive or choose what we will be perceiving
perception checking
helps improve accuracy of your perceptions
selective exposure
when u tend to expose yourself to info that will confirm ur existing beliefs
selective attention
when u attend to those things that u anticipate will fulfill ur needs and which u anticipate u will find enjoyable
2 types of selective perception are
selective attention and selective exposure
the process by which the perceiver groups together two or more stimuli that are close together
proximity
the johari window shows the 4 selves which are
blind, hidden, open, unknown
sarah in her video blog was an example of
self disclosure
in the video blog in quiz 2, sarah's self concept was NOT the same thing as
sarah's measure of how valuable she thinks she is in accomplishments and activities
dyads
groups of 2 ppl
disinhibition effect occurs in
online communications
responding occurs in how many forms
2 forms
sharpen
to isolate 1 part of msg, embellish, highlight
in the video about brian and his mother talking about colleges, Brian's mother had a lack of
appropriate focus
being a better listener goes with having or developing
an increased ability to influence others
there are __ stages in listening
five
listening to a lecture in class is listening for
surface information
listening is a collection of skills that can be
improved over time
message meanings are not in the msg but instead are in
ppl
denotation
objective meaning
connotation
subjective or emotional meaning given to term by the speaker
Hayakawa talked about
negative 'snarl' words and positive 'purr' words
abstraction
a general concept, not a specific and concrete term
communicating with verbal msgs means
choosing btwn abstract and specific terms to use
directness
less polite
indirectness
more polite
women are more
polite in giving orders and making them indirect
netiquette
internet politeness
most women's or men's apologies are made
to females
assertiveness
bold but not hurting others
social networking politeniness
avoid putting friends in awkward situations
how to become assertive in a problem-solving situation:
describe problem dont judge it, state how it affects you or makes you feel, propose workable solutions for everyone to save face, confirm understanding at the end
assertiveness is not always
called for
cultural principles
should be followed in communicating
principle of cooperation
in any comms exchange, both partied will help each other to understand each other
conversational maxims
four subprinciples of the principle of cooperation
four conversational maxims are
four subprinciples of cooperation are:

informational quality, relation (relevance), manner (clarity), quantity (informative as necessary)
principle of peaceful relations
peaceful relations are primary goal of comms
principle of self-denigration
to avoid taking credit for your own accomplishments
principle of directness
desired level of directness and indirectness changes based on culture and situation
2 principles of japanese indirectness
omoiyari - empathy

and

Sassuru - infer total meaning via cues, do not ask directly
lying by commission
making explicitly false statements
lying by omission
omitting relevant information causing others to draw false conclusions
during conflict, women seek
agreement
men will express
'bald disagreement' more often
ableism
discrimination against people with disabilities
women more often use polite speech to
gain compliance
confirmation vs disconfirmation
the extend to which you acknowledge the other person
individual racism is in contrast with
institutional racism
disconfirmation
ignoring someone's presence as well as their communications
rejection
you disagree with the person's message but you do not discredit the person
psychologist William James
stated that being ignored is the greatest punishment
confirmation
acknowledging a person's presence and accepting their self-definition at the same time
signs of disconfirmation
jumping to interpretation, interrupting, responding to a person only tangentially
signs of confirmation
encouraging expression, reacting exclusively to what a person says, asking questions and acknowledging questions,
individual heterosexism is a more narrow term than
institutional heterosexism
institutional ageism can be seen in
mandatory retirement laws and age restrictions
individual ageism can be seen in
particular portrayals of the elderly in the media
individual heterosexism includes the belief that
homosexuals cannot raise children or maintain stable relationships
avoid overattribution, or attributing everything a person does to his sexual orientation, because that
helps perpetuate negative stereotypes
sex role sterotyping can be avoided if you refer to
a male nurse or female doctor
talking down or talking slowly to the elderly is showing
individual ageism
affectional orientation
similar to the term sexual orientation, but referring to affection instead of sex.
dont refer to age sex and race if it is
unnecessary to do so
extensionalize
analyze something according to what it is instead of its label
intensionalize
to take into account the label first
static evaluation
judging somebody or something based on one static non-changing look or glance
non-allness
the attitude that you do not know all things and that there is always more to learn and assimilate
allness
thinking you know everything
fact-inference confusion
not properly distinguishing facts from assumptions or logical leaps of judgment or educated guesses (inferences)
factual statements may be made only after
observation
factual statements are limited to what was
observed
factual statements may be made only by the
observer
factual statements may be made only about the
past or present
factual statements are subject to
verifiable standards
factual statements approach
certainty
inferential statements
may be made at any time
inferential statements
go beyond what has been observed
inferences may be made by
anyone
inferences involve varying degrees of
probability
inferences may be made at
any time
index
a useful antidote to discrimination (pg 88)
index
a mental subscript in which everyone is an individual
polarization means
an either/or fallacy with either/or statements
a date
is a mental subscript that allows you to look at your statement within the context of the particular time and date when it was said
in certain situations, either/or statements are
fine
dating your statement is important when your statement is
evaluative, because where u were at that time is important to what you knew about the subject then
there is a strong tendency toward polarization where people
categorize others according to polar opposite qualities or black/white extremes
indiscrimination
the failure to distinguish between similar but different people
institutional sexism involves
customs and practices
gay bashing is
individual sexism
retaining a judgment of a person, despite the inevitable changes in a person is known as
static evaluation
best to use inclusive terms like 'place of worship' instead of 'church', which is an
exclusive term
people in polychromic cultures believe that human relations are more important than
the business at hand
setting boundaries =
regulating
shy employee in video, alberto, to communicate with boss, used-
'affect displays'
impersonal is the opposite of
interpersonal
dont finish sentences of ppl with speech disorders or tell them to
relax and slow down
a conversation starts with an opening and the second stage is
the feedforward
phatic message
Phatic Communication: Using conventional messages to establish rapport, to break the ice, and/or to end a conversation. You might hug, kiss, shake hands, bow
nonverbal
compliments verbal msgs
nonverbal means can communicate
both intimacy/love and anger etc
nonverbal means can also communicate your relationship
dominance and statis
structuring conversation involves
showing your are listening or ready to start talking
kinesics
body movements, emblems, illustrators, affect displays, regulators, adaptors
emblems
body movements that translate into phrases, like the ok sign
affect displays
movements of face that communicate emotional meaning
regulators are behaviors that
monitor, coordinate like nodding or leaning your head forward and opening mouth showing u r ready to speak
adaptors
gestures satisfying personal need like scratching
self adaptors
self touching like rubbing your nose
alter adaptors
movements that interact with a person, overtly like touching them or covertyly like folding your arms on your chest to keep your distance from them came
object adaptors
movements focused on objects
illustrators
movemnts that illustratee verbal msgs like circular hand movements when illustrating something large and round
attractiveness is
part of your body language
facial movements can communicate at least the following eight emotions:
happiness, surprise, fear, anger, sadness, disgust, contempt and interest
facial feedback hypothesis
says that ur facial expression influences ur level of psychological arousal
facial management techniques help express feelings while
hiding others
facial management techniques serve to
intensify, deintensify, neutralize (cover up an emotion), mask (replacing an emotion with a fake emotion you don't really feel), simulate (show an emotion you dont feel)
average age of mutual gaze in western culture
1.18 seconds
breaking cultural-specific eye contact rules implies you are showing:
abnormally high or low interest in the person, self-consciousness, nervousness over your interaction, stress and surprise
eye contact functions include
monitoring feedback, securing attention, regulating conversation, signal nature of relationship, signal status, compensate for physical distance, block off unpleasant stimuli
eye avoidance is related to
civil inattention
spatial communications
is the study of proxemics
four distances btwn communicators
intimate, personal, social and public distance
intimate distance
18 inches or less apart
personal distance
18 inches+ to 4 feet apart
social distance
4+ feet to 12 feet
public distance
12+ to 25 feet
territorialitty
possessive reaction to an area or to particular objects
primary territories
areas u call ur own
secondary territories
areas that dont belong to u but with which u r associated
public territories
areas open to all ppl
home field advantage
dominance at home territory
markers to signify ownership
central, boundary and ear-marks
boundary markers
divide your territory from others, such as armrests separating seats on a bus
earmarkers
branding, nameplates, initials, trademarks showing possession of an object
central markers
items u place in ur territory to mark ur presence
marking your territory
is a healthy sign
artifactual messages
r conveyed through objects or arrangements made by human hands
high status individuals in a society have the right to
invade lower ranking individuals territories or homes
respiration rates increase in the presence of
red light
blue is soothing and red is
provocative
brown as a color lacks
authority
green elicits a
negative response
black is
too powerful
yellow in western culture is seen as
weak
your clothing shows your willingness to
conform to the rules and style of the organization
long hair is seen as
less conservative (end of page 103)