Win Me Over Analysis

The phrases "win me over" and, "show me..." call to mind an audition. It would surprise no one to hear that between the judges and the auditioning actor there exists a power dynamic. Who would assert that the judges and the actor are coequals when the judges are the gatekeepers to what the actor wants, namely a position in a production? Analogically a similar power dynamic exists in the initial stages of the dating process where a man presents the best of himself to the lady in question in the hope that will lead to sex.

The phraseology above on the one hand straightforwardly expresses the desire for an equal despite on the other promulgating only the conditions necessary for the 'supplier side' of this particular power dynamic to acquiesce to the buyer. This is without a doubt, an uneven audition in that there is no discussion of the buyer's stipulations and conditions. Being won over with witty banter, potentially humiliating anecdotes, and by the preview of future times effectively terminates the transaction. …show more content…
If I have done the requisite amount of work on myself, which is inclusive of though not limited to dressing stylishly, carrying myself with confidence, being a masterful conversationalist, working out/staying fit, chances are that a handful of women will find me attractive. The frequency of sex is directly proportional to the development of my skills with women.

Approaching women, talking to them, procuring their phone number and getting them to consent to meet - these are skills that require ample time and countless failures to develop. The subtext to all our interaction before sex is the implied promise of sex provided I continue to meet the conditions set