High Student Relationships In High School

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One of the best experiences in life is going through the formative years during the high school stage. There are a lot of fond and memorable times during high school that one wishes this stage could last forever. One of the things that make this phase such a remarkable time in one 's life is the sweet times that one experiences with their high school sweetheart. That is why it becomes quite a challenge for high school graduates to keep their relationships going when they get admitted to college. The college life brings a reality that a person and their loved one are highly unlikely to attend the same college and, in most cases, they will be separated by getting admitted to far flung institutions. This research paper will make arguments that …show more content…
Granted, technology has advanced so much that there are communication devices that enable people to communicate in real time as they see each other. However, this is only practical occasionally as the rigid scheduling of college life in terms of classes, friends, college culture, and social clubs are likely to take their toll on the relationship (Oswald & Clark). This means that when one partner is free, then the other is likely to be busy doing one thing or the other. The two love birds may be willing to keep in touch by maintaining frequent contact, but this will eventually become impossible due to the different scheduling of activities at their respective college campuses. This will most likely kill off the relationship with …show more content…
This means that the relationship requires that, irrespective of being in different colleges, that they maintain the same tastes and preferences for various things in life. However, in most of the high school relationships, it happens that the taste for similar things gradually evaporates with time as a result of the distance and not seeing each other on a regular basis. This means that each person in the relationship develops new hobbies and a liking for new things that are distinct to what their partner liked in the relationship. This automatically kills off their relationship as the two separate individuals outgrow their high school days as they begin to embrace new realities in their college

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