It is the morning of July 4th, 2008: I groan as my mother gently whispers, “teneshi yene mar (Get up honey)”. Struggling I open my eyes and notice the trembling cabin, I turn to my mother with a look of concern and she reaches out her hand and squeezes my own looking up at me, “we are going to be okay Mar”. A couple of moments later our plane has landed, we gather up our belongings and make our way towards the exit filled with people attached to their screens and MP3 players. The airport is filled with an undercurrent of anticipation, impatience, and boredom; bodies scramble back and forth from one gate to another. My mother, attempting to balance three children, clasps my hand, holds my little brother to her waist and calls back to my older…
Barriers and adversity are two things that shape people and their lifestyles. Like any other person, I’ve had my fair share of problems. However, my biggest burden has been the fact that no matter how much my father wishes to be in my life, he can’t. On May 25, 1995, my father was imprisoned in Mexico. I’ve only heard his voice in phone calls and seen him in pictures.…
I believe that my personal background, and my success despite the adversity that I have faced is an essential part of who I am. The first of my struggles came from being born to two teenage parents without at least a high school education, and although my mother went on to get a GED and to college my father did not. Many people in my family had issues with substance abuse and addictions including my father. Although, I was raised by my mother and grandmother, my father’s actions and behaviors negatively impacted my life. My father was verbally and mentally abusive to the people around him, especially when he used alcohol.…
My father once told me that in order to become a man you must go through some obstacles in life. As I look to the north I can see that this is going to be the biggest obstacle I will face! The clouds got darker and darker by the minute. I thought it was just me but my friend ,Howard, saw it too. I blinked twice a whirl of air hit my face and all I hear is “TORNADO”,!…
A time I faced adversity and overcame it was when I was BLANK years old and was on a walk in my neighborhood with my cousin and my sister. My cousin was riding his bike next to us and me and my sister were walking. While walking we heard barking and looked back, and when we did we saw a large dog charging towards us. Despite my love for dogs now, I was deathly afraid of them when I was BLANK years old. Seeing the dog frightened all of us and our flight instinct kicked in.…
Obstacles, everyone knows them and everyone goes through them that's what separates the strong and determine from the weak and broken. Everyone has to deal with obstacles but it's how you bounce back and deal with it that truly defines who you are. When I eight I got diagnosed with a learning disability. I went through years of intense tutoring and I had double the homework as every other kid. Homework also took me hour and hours every night that I wouldn't go to bed hours later than my bedtime.…
My key life lessons are that nothing beats hard work and if you treat others with respect, they will generally treat you with respect. Hard work and effort are the main aspects that lead to “lucky” things happening. Good things don’t just fall into people’s laps, the ones that have the most “luck” generally are those that put in the most effort and work. Also, I have learned that when you truly respect those around, they will respect you back and life is much easier when you aren’t doing things behind each other’s backs.…
Dealing With Adversity It was the summer before fourth grade when I was told that my dad had cancer. He was diagnosed with stage four prostate cancer when I was ten years old. The day I found out was mostly a normal day. I was told in our dining room. For the next exiguous days after that I was depressed.…
“Fa thud” I’m laying down in the middle of the street, I opened my eyes, befuddled as I had no clue what had just occurred. The feeling of the streets cement digging into my hands, my head was throbbing as a stream of sweat comes down my face. This was my impediment for the next 8 months. As I looked around, I had no idea what had occurred before me until I looked down. This was one of the major obstacles i’ve had to overcome in my life.…
As I grew older every day there would be obstacles in life, some that I would overcome and some that I would not. One major obstacle in life that was of significant impact was when the doctors discovered that my brother had schizophrenia. This illness is a life-long lasting disorder that causes the person to have breakdowns, bad thoughts, and makes them believe that they are in a fantasy or a delusion. Every time my brother would attend County College Of Morris, the school would have to call the ambulance because he would begin to talk to himself and have traumatic breakdowns. His schizophrenia onset during my freshman year and it was really difficult to continue focusing on my grades and the situation I was in.…
I always struggled in school, I always tried to be the best, but fell back. Whether it was because I had trouble in school or I would make commitments that were too much for me to withhold. At the age of 13, I started to attend doctors, my mother theorized that I had hyperthyroidism. Instead, doctors discovered cysts on my neck that have increased ever since. Through it all, my grandfather stood there for me.…
Losing a loved one is a tough obstacle to overcome in life. It can become even more difficult when you add on the fact that you are entering your freshman year of high school. This was my freshman year. Transitioning into high school can be a scary thing; at least for me it was. Though, I was still at the same school, I still felt as if I was in a new place.…
Around the time of 1100 A.D there lived a wise monk. Though no one remembers his name, they do remember his words. His words can still be found within the halls of wisdom to this day and are sure to echo there in another 1000 years from now. These were his words, "When I was a young man, I wanted to change the world. I found it was difficult to change the world, so I tried to change my nation.…
I fear that I’m going to fail in school because I don’t have much confidence in my intelligence. I fear that I will not be able to achieve my goals in life or that I’ll have to settle for something less. I’m afraid to pick the wrong career and find out that I’m being let go because of the economy. I’m afraid that I will not have the stability that I desperately need. I don’t need a fancy life, I just want to be comfortable and be confident that I can pay the bills every month.…
Shaping My Life I made myself into the person that I am today. I’m kind, caring and a person, which led me to change the way that I think and the atmosphere around me. I’ve always been caring and kind to others, and I’ve always thought about wanting to help people for the rest of my life. I changed that way that I think in several different ways, including changing how shy that I was and how I wasn’t looking people in the eyes when I talked to them. I also changed the way that the atmosphere was around me, by working hard in my life, and figuring out who my real friends were.…