Importance Of Lying To Respond To Conflict

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People all around the world have had to respond to conflict at least once or twice in their lives whether they are just a normal everyday citizen or in some branch of the military. One example of conflict is World War Two when most of the world was at war with the Nazi's. In World War Two there was a young girl named Anne Frank who lived in hiding during the war so she would not be sent to a death camp. People should best respond to conflict by lying , hiding from conflict and writing about their conflicts.
Lying is a way that can get you out of harmful or life threatening situations. In the book Anne Frank Diary of a Young Girl the Van Dan's lied about staying in the secret Annex. “Lying becomes a convenient way to avoid perceived conflict

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