The Truth About Lying Judith Viorst Summary

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“The Truth about Lying” by Judith Viorst

Summary

In “The Truth About Lying”, the narrator classify s the different kind of lies due to social, peace-keeping, trust-keeping and protective lies. The author explains the reason of lying. Viorst ask her reader’s opinion about those lies after she manifest her own thoughts. At the end of the story, the author concludes that she agrees what her friend said “Others may completely accept the lie I’m telling, I don’t.”
Theme
Judith Viorst wants readers to know the results of lying; although after people told a lie, they have to keep “lying in order to back up the lies that are backing up the lie” (208). The worst thing is the liars have to remember what they said when they lied. An additional effect

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