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Conflict
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Transactional process between people who perceive incompatible goals, scarce resources, or interference in achieving their objectives
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Key features of conflict
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1. Conflict unfolds over time
2. Conflict is strongly shaped by perception 3. Conflicts are rooted in our perceptions regarding goals and resources |
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Kitchen-Sinking
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Combatants throw accusations at each other that have little to do with the disagreement at hand
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Symmetrical Relationships
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Power is balanced within the relationship
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Complementary Relationship
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Power is unbalanced within the relationship
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Power Currency
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A resource that other people value that you posses
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Type of Power Currency's
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1. Resource Currency
2 Expertise Currency 3. Social Network Currency 4. Personal Currency 5. Intimacy Currency |
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Resource Currency
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Material things such as money, property, and food
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Expertise Currency
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Comprises of special skills or knowledge
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Social Network Currency
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A person who is liked with a network of friends, family, and acquaintances with substantial influence
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Personal Currency
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Personal Characteristics such as physical beauty or intelligence that people prize as desirable in that particular culture
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Intimacy Currency
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When you share with someone else a close bond that no one else shares
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Accommodation
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One person abandons his or her own goals and acquiesces to the desires of the other person
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Eros
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Emphasizes physical attraction , passion sexual chemistry. Based on beauty
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Ludas
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Love is a game, enjoy doing things together, having fun, but don't get too serious.
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Pragma
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Practical Love, Seeks relationships that will work, Realistic expectations choose mate carefully
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Agape
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Biblical Love, Selfless, compassionate
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Manic
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Extreme highs and extreme lows. Obsession love, extreme jealousy
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Components of love
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1. Intimacy
2. Caring 3. Attachment |
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Intimacy
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feeling of closeness and "union"
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Caring
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the concern you have for your partner's welfare and the desire to keep him or her happy
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Attachment
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longing to be in your partners presence
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Passionate Love
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A state of intense emotional and physical longing for union with another
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5 facts about passionate love
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1. Passionate love is driven by idealization
2. No gender or age differences exist in people's experiences of passionate love 3. People from all cultures feel passionate love 4. For Adults love is integrally linked with sexuality and sexual desire 5. Passionate love is negatively related to relationship duration |
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Companionate Love
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An intense form of liking defined by emotional investment and deeply intertwined lives
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Types of Love
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Storge, Agape, Mania, Pragma, Ludus, and Eros
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Romantic Relationship
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A chosen interpersonal involvement forged through communication in which both participants perceive the bond as romantic
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4 Key elements of Romantic Relationship
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1. Perception
2. Choice 3. Diversity 4.Communication |
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Social Exchange Theory
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Proposes that you'll feel drawn to those you see as offering substantial benefits (things you like and want) with few associated costs (things demanded of you in return)
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Mere exposure effect
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The more you're exposed to others the more likely you are to perceive them as attractive
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Stages of Coming together
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1.Initiating
2. experimenting 3.intensifying 4. integrating 5. bonding |
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Initiating (Stage of coming together)
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size up the new person you just met. You draw information on them and look for similarities as well as determine if you find them attractive
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Experimenting (Stage of coming together)
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You exchange demographic information, consists of lots of small talk
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Intensifying (Stage of coming together)
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The depth of personal disclosure increases
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Integrating (Stage of coming together)
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You and your partners personalities become one
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Bonding (Stage of coming together)
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A public ritual that announces to that world that you and your partner have made a commitment to one another
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Stages of Coming Apart
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1. Differentiating
2. Circumscribing 3. Stagnating 4. Avoiding 5. Terminating |
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Differentiating (Stages of Coming Apart)
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The beliefs, attitudes, and values that distinguish you from your partner come to dominate your thoughts and communication
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Circumscribing (Stages of Coming Apart)
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Respond to problematic differences by ignoring them or spending less time talking
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