Esch also struggles with the desire to be strong and not codependent, but to be “strong” because that is what she thinks is attractive and desirable. Esch’s beliefs can be used to explain the way black women have constant pressure to be “strong”, which is something that is preached to black girls from the moment they are born. In Too Heavy a Yoke: Black Women and the Burden of Strength, author, Chanequa Walker-Barnes, discusses the danger of the myth that black women must be “strong”. “She is incapable of saying ‘help’ as she is of saying ‘no’” (Barnes, 4) and this is what Esch lives out in her life. As a motherless child, she tries to navigate trying to be the motherly, strong individual. Often times this leads black women to put on masks to hide their
Esch also struggles with the desire to be strong and not codependent, but to be “strong” because that is what she thinks is attractive and desirable. Esch’s beliefs can be used to explain the way black women have constant pressure to be “strong”, which is something that is preached to black girls from the moment they are born. In Too Heavy a Yoke: Black Women and the Burden of Strength, author, Chanequa Walker-Barnes, discusses the danger of the myth that black women must be “strong”. “She is incapable of saying ‘help’ as she is of saying ‘no’” (Barnes, 4) and this is what Esch lives out in her life. As a motherless child, she tries to navigate trying to be the motherly, strong individual. Often times this leads black women to put on masks to hide their