The Nature Of Hae And Adnan's Relationship

This episode explains the nature of Hae and Adnan’s relationship. Though their relationship was forbidden by their immigrant parents they still dated behind closed doors. They both understood the constraints of their relationship and knew they had to be secret lovers. They were sexually active and both claimed to be in love with one another. Hae would often express how she felt she was pushing Adnan away from his religion but Adnan would disagree saying “I wasn’t that religious.”( https://serialpodcast.org ). Whether or not their parents approved of these two they were always together because they were both in a magnet program at school. In Haes diary she would go on and on about how Adnan was so sweet and she was madly in love with him. She also expressed the first time she fell in love with him, which was at their junior prom. Based off our course content I can conclude, their biological influences was beginning to weigh down on the two. Hae felt she was getting in Adnan’s way and she would often cry on the phone because she missed him so much. Adnan felt he didn’t see her enough so he would often make unexpected visits when Hae would be out with her friends. Because of this the prosecutor tried to paint Adnan as “possessive” and “controlling”, I believe he was just a young man in love. He was obsessed. She was obsessed. Upon hearing Haes diary it was clear to see she was accustomed to their secret relationship, since they both had strict parents. (https://serialpodcast.org/season-one). I found this very interesting because the courts made it seem as if …show more content…
(Barlow, D.H., & Durand, M. 2015). In the case of Adnan and Hae they both were more affected by social influences. Since both their families disapproved of them they never told their families of the nature of their relationship. This is why once Adnan’s mother found about Hae she went to his school dance to scold