Loneliness And Being Alone

Did you know being lonely and being alone are very different? Being lonely is that unstoppable, dull, and mostly permanent feeling that follows you all day everyday no matter what your doing while being alone is temporary. It's when you do something by yourself for your happiness not someone else's. Most people think being alone is a bad thing because you isolate yourself from the world. The truth is it's beneficial for you when you have time to think of yourself, behaviour, and decisions. It also makes you independent, relying, and trustful of your inner voice. Being alone also helps in future relationships because you become more independent and confident at being alone. When you learn how to enjoy being alone you will have a healthier lifestyle. Being alone is beneficial. When you're alone you get to work on yourself and do things that make you happy instead of worrying about what other people want. People think of being single as a negative thing because you are lonely and some might say that you're depressed or close minded because you haven't met that special someone yet that makes your life a little brighter and joyful. what people don't see is all the positive great things of being single for example you can travel whenever and wherever you want.In relationships if you want to go somewhere you have to ask your partner and they have to agree. When you're single you can work on yourself, develop as an individual, and work on your body shape. It is proven by UK searchers that 62% of the people gained 14 pounds after beginning a relationship and about 50% of couples said that their main activity together was either staying in and watching tv or eating out which is unhealthy unproductive and will definitely gain you some weight. Being alone has many benefits so if you still haven't met your significant other don't worry because you might have a better life than someone in a relationship. Being alone gives you the freedom to make better choices about who you are and what you want without the influence of others. We are mostly dragged along with what others do, want, believe,and say.this normally happens because we don't want to stand out and maybe get judged because we may be different.when you are alone you get to make the decisions that are best for you and that will guarantee you a happy life in the future . An experiment was conducted by Karan Girotra and other researchers to find out if brainstorming alone is more beneficial than with others. In this experiment 44 graduate and undergraduate students were split into 2 groups these two groups were then asked to come up with ideas for a fitness company 1 of the groups went through the hybrid process(individual information the connected together to make one idea)and the other through the traditional team process after both teams came up with as many ideas as they can the ideas were than evaluated by independent viewer. The viewers than rated both of the team's ideas,the ideas produced by the hybrid process were 30% better than the ones produced by the team process also students presented 3 times as many ideas using the hybrid …show more content…
for these results. In group settings, people may censor themselves more or may be distracted by excessive conversation. Cîroup settings also may encourage some people to become passive and let others do the talking. Or, a group may collectively latch onto one idea too quickly, so that better ideas are never heard. The hybrid process, on the other hand, allows all team members to think of anything and everything. It also gives them the opportunity' to present their ideas completely before a review process begins. …show more content…
That we’re not complete without another? Being alone allows you to access yourself as the complete person you already are.” this is so true because we sometimes think like this when we are in front of our partner/friend we make it seem like we need them to live and without them we are nothing but when we get to explore our solitude we just start to learn how much we are