Teenagers Going Through Phases

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Out of all age groups, teenagers are most commonly labeled as going through phases.Its true, at the end of the day, I am just a young 18 year-old girl. I think that I know everything, but the truth is I have an entire life ahead of me. I am still learning the ways of life each and every day. That doesn't mean, however; that I don’t know what it is that I want for myself in this time and moment.

Don’t tell me that I want tattoos and piercings just because my friends have them, only because it is “trendy”, or because of the simple fact that I am a teenager. I am old enough to understand the outcome is by putting these things on my body. I understand that if I get a tattoo it is on my body forever and that if I want a piercing that it is possible for the hole to never close up. I understand that it is a commitment of a lifetime. I know that for my future profession, I might not be allowed to show tattoos or piercings. I have thought all of this through and taken all of it into consideration. Putting tattoos and piercings on my body does not mean I am going through I am not going through a phase, it means to me that I view my body as a canvas, and this is the way I choose to express that. Don't tell me that I believe in my faith because it is what my friends follow, because my favorite actress believes in it or because it is the most talked about religion in todays society. I follow my faith because of the simple fact that it is what I believe in. Just because it may not be the faith that my Grandmother followed, or because it makes me the outcast of my family, does not define it as a phase. If I choose to not believe in any type of faith at all, that does not mean I am only going through a phase and I’ll get over it.It doesn't matter what age I am at, I will still believe in what my mind and heart agrees with. I believe in what my thoughts agree with. This doesn't make me an outcast, that makes me human. Don’t tell me that my outlook on life is a phase. I am not who I am because I want to be different, because I want to cause my family trouble, or because I’m only an experimental teenager. Just because I am happy some days and sad others does not mean that I am trying to beg for attention.I
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The friends who we choose to surround ourself, the music we choose to listen to, or even the clothes we choose to wear; the list of “phases” is endless. Sometimes if its something that our parents, or grandparents’s generations didn’t follow, then it is simply a “phase”. If were not following what society thinks we should be, then were just going through a phase. Were may all be teenagers, but were not all stupid. We don't all make stupid choices that were going to regret in 5 years. Some of us actually know what we want to achieve with our life. Sometimes tattoos or piercings is the only way I know how to express who I am and what I love. Don't tell me I'm going through a phase, I'm just being me. If I am only going through a phase right now, then it looks like I’ll be going through phases my whole life because I know I’m always going g to be intrigued to try new

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