On the one hand, it's our automatic response to assure him and say that just loving Martha couldn't possibly have caused Lavender's death. On the other hand, this is war, and he's the commanding officer. It's very possible that his distraction over Martha caused Lavender to die. “In any other circumstances it might've ended there. But this was Vietnam, where guys carried guns, and Dave Jensen started to worry”. (59)
We see a situation here that has guilt and blame over a couple of simple things—a stolen jackknife, a broken nose. Simple enough. But, in Vietnam, those kinds of things fester. The presence of guns and the overall tension increase the guilt and blame and make them so much worse. “Later we heard that Strunk died somewhere over Chu Lai, which seemed to relieve Dave Jensen of an enormous weight”. (63)
The first loss of all soldiers was the death of Ted Lavender, a soldier who is shot dead outside Than Khe. O’Brien tells that he hits the ground weighed down by all the things he was carrying. He was more afraid of the enemy than most soldiers, so he was carrying more bullets than was required. He had gone to pee while his friends were blowing up a tunnel. Kiowa becomes obsessed by the death of his