The relational turbulence model, developed
The relational turbulence model, developed
In the article “What Makes Marriage Work” Dr. John Gottman explores what factors are involved in a successful long lasting marriage, and how to minimize the factors that lead to divorce. Through using real life examples Gottman shows how in general arguments in relationships aren’t inherently bad, but to keep a relationship positive the amount of constructive interactions must greatly outweigh the quantity of destructive or negative interactions. To support this, a key idea of the article is the ratio of positive to negative interactions, or as stated “That magic ratio is 5 to 1. As long as there is five times as much positive feeling and interaction between husband and wife as there is negative, the marriage was likely to be stable over time.”…
The essential to have a healthy relationship, is trust. Trust is to believe in one’s decision and it is not to doubt the other person. Through the short story “Keeping Company”, Kemp Claire conveys that Dennis and James have a better relationship than William and Nora. Their way of communicating, the trust they have on each…
What does sense-certainty fail in achieving, and what does this failure mean for epistemology? 2000. December 9th. Sense-certainty is Hegel 's approach to proving that knowledge of the world is not a wholly passive process, he does this through a dialectic from, meaning that the argument moves as a conversation, with hegel presenting an answer to a question, in this case how one can know about the world through consciousness, and then works to show how the answer is wrong in itself, because it holds inconsistencies. This essay will be read as in two parts, first i shall discuss how sense-certainty fails, and then will approach the question of what that means for epistemology.…
We all need relationships to help us grow and develop. Relationships provide a context for much of what we do and are an important factor for making decisions. Put time and effort into building…
Rogerian Argument There are two different perspectives of causes to a successful relationship. The first is communication, trust, support, and honesty; the second perspective is an entitlement, showering of gifts, no fighting, and finding quick solutions to major problems. Although, both perspectives show very understandable reasoning individually, each cause evens the other out. Lauren states that having a sense of entitlement, being showered in gifts, having zero fights, and finding quick solutions to major problems all contribute to a successful relationship.…
My boyfriend, Quincy, and I have been together for almost three years but, have known each other for seven years. Although the relationship did not remain productive for the full seven years there was still a lot of time spent with each other to communicate and develop a relationship. When a relationship exist for that long the relationship goes through many stages of development and our relationship is still developing today. Looking back at my relationship I can analyze the different relationship theories that I have gone through with Quincy. In this paper I am going to discuss the concepts of uncertainty reduction theory, social exchange theory and relational dialectics theory to analyze my relationship with my boyfriend.…
1. Interactions in which infants and their relationship partners together experience delight and other positive emotions, may create (or fail to create) expectations in that infant that people can experience positive feelings together. Some have argued that these expectations may come to act as an "internal working model" for later intimacy relating. Based upon your reading in this chapter (though you may also pull from latter chapters) do you agree or disagree? Explain.…
Relationships Many people have different kinds of relationships with different people. Some relationships can be good or bad depending on the type. Relationships can even get stressful at times.…
Relationship analysis Humans are by nature innately social beings and they thrive on relationships. Having Relationships and participating in social interaction are some of the basic needs of human beings. They are beneficial to people’s physical and mental health. People crave affection, respect, love, respect, and companionship. Relationships can be detrimental to a person’s health if it is bad or it can promote happiness and success.…
Hendrick, C., & Hendrick, S. S. (1986). A theory and method of love. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 50, 392-402. Lockwood, P., Dolderman, D., Sadler, P., & Gerchak, E. (2004). Feeling better about doing worse: Social comparisons within romantic relationships.…
Carpi and Egger’s reading “Uncertainty, Error, and Confidence” discusses how there will always be a small portion of error in all scientist’s works. However, there are two different types of error: statistical and systematic and the main difference between the two is that statistical error is random and systematic error can be compensated for during an experiment. Scientists do not report just a single value as a measurement due to these types of errors in experiments, they report a certain range of values, which is a confidence interval. Another key aspect within the reading is in regards to uncertainty. Scientists must accept and realize that there will be errors within the measurements, thus a sense of uncertainty.…
Lack of communication for longer period will ruin the relationship. Effective communication is the primary activity to maintain healthy and long-lasting relationship (Alberts 202). Sometimes conflict arise in relationship because of feeling that one person does a lot of work than others and does not get appreciated. Equity theory in relationships are motivated by fairness rather than cost and rewards. The meaning of this theory is that both persons should be equally benefitted in any way otherwise conflict arise between their relationship (Alberts 195).…
Relationships whether inseparable or distant, are intricate. Every relationship can be described as a long road. On the long road come many bumps and potholes, but also consist of smooth, flat roads. The bumps/potholes on the roads represent problems every couple comes across, you can never have a successful relationship without disagreement. Disagreement, if handled the right way, can lead to compromise and increased affection between the couple, just like on a road, if you handle the bump/pothole with ease you can overcome the obstacle leaving no scratches on your car.…
Canary and Stafford’s Relational Maintenance Strategies describe what are the beneficial effects of a content relationship. A content relationship is based on the actions, attitudes, and behaviors that happy partners create to build a solid and not tedious relationship. There is a risk in the relationship if the excitement decline. In my past relationship, my ex-boyfriend…
Newbury Park, California: Sage. Messman, S. J. & Mikesell, R. L (2000). Competition and interpersonal conflict in dating relationships. Communication Reports, Winter 2000, Vol. 13 Issue 1, p21 – 35 Miles, M. B., & Huberman, A. M. (1994).…