What is love? Does it even exist? A question the world has had since literature was in existence. There have been many studies on Love and Attraction,but our culture has a very different idea of love. The word love has been corrupted, even the emotion has been tainted by the millennials hook up culture.…
In Selections from Love 2.0, by Barbara Fredrickson, positivity resonance is moment in which a positive emotion courses through two people’s brains…
Humans have always looked for the answer to finding happiness in life. For the majority of people, they believe that love will bring them this sense of happiness. In Barbara Fredrickson’s, “Selections from Love 2.0: How Our Supreme Emotion Affects Everything We Feel, Think, Do and Become,” she talks about how we see love in the wrong way and that we should start looking at love the way the body sees it. This change in perception of the definition of love allows people to have a better chance of obtaining love and having a better sense of self. With the conventional notions of love and relationships, love becomes more complex by giving people the sense of longing.…
When the word marriage is heard, what definition comes to mind? After reading Stephanie Coontz’s article, The Radical Idea of Marrying for Love, the definition of marriage that most people are familiar with is different. In Coontz’s article, she explains the ideal marriage in multiple cultures and how the idea of marriage has altered after some time. It is hard to have one definition of marriage for one culture when there are many different people, therefore, is there a real definition for marriage? If there is a real definition of marriage, is there such thing as love?…
Aleksandra Tyzkiewicz Social Psychology 9.08.2015 INTRODUCTION Many people have been strongly attracted to someone, maybe even in love. The main problem is that these two are separated by a very thin line, as a matter of fact many people confuse attraction with love. These people believe that the feelings they have for the other person are so strong that they passed the attraction phase and walked into what is so called “love”. These feelings usually lead to relationships and this is what psychologists have been trying to explain; they say that a relationship is characterized by “love, care, commitment and intimacy” and only then it can be classified as consummate love, which means that all of these characteristics are present. This paper…
Throughout this lecture Helen Fisher discusses love and she also what is love. In her first Ted Talk “The brain is love” she talks about a research about couples who where still in love, some who had just being dumped, and ones who were still in love after 10 to 15 years of marriage. She describes a temple who was built by the Mayan sun king for his wife. He had died in 720 AD. When the sun set behind his temple the sun’s shadow shines towards her and the same thing happens to his when the sun shines beings her’s.…
Anyone who has read Love Medicine probably quickly discovered it would be a hard story to follow. There are multiple characters and each has their own story as well as their version of other character’s stories. The authors reason for writing the story the way it is, is the fact that life is very complex and often has various stories in which we don’t receive answers to all the questions we ask. However, to see the beauty in this story, you must be a reader of patience, which I am not. I can see a beauty in the reasoning the author used to write her book and highly respect the way the Native Americans lived their lives.…
Whether it began with God’s initial thought of every individual, or the very first time a mother was able to cradle her creation, love has, and will always be a driving force of the human psyche. The ability to love, not only enhances a person’s will to live, but it also shapes their concept of self-love. Unfortunately, this multiplex emotion often comes at a price, and is not always easy to attain. The human psychology inevitably revolves around affection, no matter the gender, race, or region of the world. Love, or lack…
In literature, love has always been a concept of great debate, although, what exactly is love? Pamela C. Regan, from Los Angeles University, explains that “…A person who experiences sexual desire for another individual, along with other emotional or psychological events, may characterize his or her state as one of ‘being in love…’” (Regan 139). However, does this sexual desire always breed emotion? When one thinks of love, thoughts of tenderness, kindness, and romance often arise with it.…
Love: an aspect of life both complex and simple, both mysterious and apparent, both evasive and accessible. Great thinkers have mused over this concept, its different forms and effects, for centuries. Many ask the question of love's role in happiness: is it truly necessary? Both Plato and Aristotle argue the importance of love in attaining true contentment. However, the different forms they describe carry different connotations and different levels of influence on life.…
Such as the styles of love, the attitudes associated with love, the values one bases their relationships on, romantic love, and unrequited love. One should care about these phases to understand love better. To observe human beings and decide whether they are what they look for in a lover or not. An individual can learn a lot about themselves, whether it is their flaws or what type of lover they are. Therefore, that is what this document is about to research certain types of aspects of love and put them into real life…
Love is often portrayed as a beneficial and a desiredwanted emotion because it bears the results of feeling good. When seen from the outside, only the good parts of relationships involving love are seen, such as others holding hands and spending quality time together. Therefore, many gain the misconception that love is a picture-perfect emotion that they end up longing for. Although love appears to not have conflict, romantic love makes those who receive it initially feel joy and happiness, but subsequently make them feel animosity, anguish, and carelessness.…
The Pursuit of Happiness Per Merriam-Webster dictionary, happiness is defined in three ways. Happiness is the state of well-being and contentment, obsolete: good fortune, and a pleasurable or satisfying experience. The word is also correlated with other words such as joy, prosperity, felicity, and aptness. The word “happy” was first recorded in the 15th century. The online etymology dictionary states, from Greek to Irish, a great majority of the European words for “happy” at first meant “lucky.”…
Can love be researched? And if so, how on earth is it done? Well, Dr. Fry displays a very informative presentation on “The Mathematics of Love,” shown on the popular conference series, TED. She dives into the process on how to find the ideal partner, knowing when is the right age to marry, and how to stay in a relationship. While her lecture is interesting and worth looking into, it is also important to understand is how she incorporates the ways of knowing into her research.…
In contrast, Barbara Fredrickson author of “Selections from Love 2.0: How Our Supreme Emotion Affects Everything We Feel, Think, Do, and Become” believes that love is “not sexual desire or the blood-ties of kinship” and love is an essential facet that is apart of a biological system…