And that is what triggered a memory of her father sitting in the same spot, having breakfast after his own father died. This is a moment where they both are sharing a similar feeling of loss and grief. Even if her father is no longer there, she still feels a connection to him because of her memories of him. As said, memories do so much more than be something to remember loved ones by. We connect with our loved ones, through sharing similar experiences, even after they have left us. Because of these moments where they share tragedies, the speaker thinks of her father and thinks back to the night she lost her father, where she and her mother “prayed / You'd come back safe, / knowing you would.” All of this comes from sitting down to have breakfast in the wake of tragedy. Here, when the speaker writes “I sat in your place,” it does not just refer to her sitting in the same seat as he did. Rather, it has a more symbolic meaning. She is following that tragic trend of losing a father, and grieving about it the next day. And while she may be eating alone at her house, she may not be entirely
And that is what triggered a memory of her father sitting in the same spot, having breakfast after his own father died. This is a moment where they both are sharing a similar feeling of loss and grief. Even if her father is no longer there, she still feels a connection to him because of her memories of him. As said, memories do so much more than be something to remember loved ones by. We connect with our loved ones, through sharing similar experiences, even after they have left us. Because of these moments where they share tragedies, the speaker thinks of her father and thinks back to the night she lost her father, where she and her mother “prayed / You'd come back safe, / knowing you would.” All of this comes from sitting down to have breakfast in the wake of tragedy. Here, when the speaker writes “I sat in your place,” it does not just refer to her sitting in the same seat as he did. Rather, it has a more symbolic meaning. She is following that tragic trend of losing a father, and grieving about it the next day. And while she may be eating alone at her house, she may not be entirely