Personal Narrative: My Acceptance Of Sexism

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I am a girl, and because of this it has been impossible to avoid the persecution and isolation that comes from sexism. Every situation I have experienced that have shaped me to be who I am I have experienced sexism. Due to the activities I was involved in, it was magnified because I chose to be a percussionist, a theater technician, an attorney for mock trial, and a member of debate club. These have all been historically male dominated communities. Yet still I overcame all of the negativity, and not only joined these activities but climbed to leadership positions and became prominent members of each group. Some students claimed a girl should never carry a drum, much less be in charge of a drumline, but I proved them wrong. Some students said girls belong on the stage not backstage, but I proved them wrong. Continuously I defied the limits that were placed on me and in doing this I have helped open the minds of both departments I am in, making them more accepting and positive communities to be in. By doing this, I have also encouraged younger girls to follow what they are passionate about. My freshman year, I was the only girl on the drumline and my theater department only had a hand full of female technicians besides myself. By the end …show more content…
My parents taught religion to my brothers and I by attended several different churches and exposing us to a whole spectrum of ideals and teachings. This has allowed me to stay an open minded and accepting individual. I learned that the most important part of any religion, organization, or group is the community. And the best way to create an exception community is to make individuals feel valued and accepted. I have continued said practice as the student technical director. If someone feels good about themselves and feels valued, they are more likely to bring positivity and hard work to the

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