The desire to fit in can be crucial, especially when situations at home or at school are not desireable. For individuals to have the outlet of friendship and community can combat times of hardship and exile. As described by Eddie a former gang member from “The Interrupters” (James &…
Michael Ignatieff once stated, “To belong is to understand the tacit codes of the people you live with.” In today’s society, group identity is often craved by all and highly prized once obtained because by most standards, a person is defined by their social standing, which is a common theme throughout literature such as The Crucible and The Scarlet Letter. To thoroughly understand Ignatieff’s statement, “to belong is to understand the tacit codes of the people you live with”, one must determine what the word, belong, means. According to the Webster-Merriam dictionary, to belong means to fit in a specified place or environment or to have the right personal or social qualities to be a member of a particular group. But how can someone truly…
The desire for individuals to belong to a community or group is a significant part of being a human being. Peter Skrzynecki poetry explores the desire as individuals to belong to a community as it is a common life experiences that we all share and is reflected in many ways due to the experiences concerning belonging. Peter Skrzynecki demonstrates these desire throughout his poem ‘Feliks Skrzynecki’ and ‘Migrant Hostel’ which communicates the need for familiarity; a sense of disconnection is developed as they move to a new residence during their displacement. ‘Feliks Skrzynecki’ is a tribute to his father whose sense of belonging as a migrant but is sustained by his original community. This is also evident in the Tropfest Short Film ‘When the World is Done With You’ informs the reader her daily routine, her daily habits and getting tired…
We all know that it is important to "fit in", but at what cost. Richard Rodriguez say's "The voices of my parents and sister and brother. Their voices insisting: You belong here. We are family members. Related.…
One of the most defining moments of one’s life is when one discovers who they truly are inside. Growing up, the influences of friends and family are clearly marked on one’s beliefs, ideals, and moral standards, whether they want to believe it or not. The desire to fit in is what pushes many people to do things they may not be comfortable with or believe in themselves; this is alternately called peer pressure. However, even through moments of weakness and the struggle to belong, one shapes and forms their own identity simply by knowing what they do and do not believe in.…
Discovering Social Conformity The regulation of own behavior at times can be intriguing guided my self-esteem and social acceptance. However, can our morals reach to a point where social obedience overrides our own beliefs? How can such behavior be tested? Milgram and Zimbardo tested such belief and came to discover the astonishing human behavior.…
Conformity Introduction The need to fit into society is a common human desire that confronts individuals of all ages. Human beings seek to relate with their peers and as a result tend to align their thoughts and actions towards this mission. This phenomenon is prevalent in all human groups such as cultures, religious affiliations, educational centers and even in the basis unit of society, the family. The attitudes, values and behaviors are indicated as group-think where individuals within the group concerned tend to align their thoughts and actions to match those of other members of the group.…
The Breakfast Club (Part Two: Theories) Social Identity Theory: “Tajfel (1979) proposed that the groups (e.g. social class, family, football team etc.) which people belonged to were an important source of pride and self-esteem. Groups give us a sense of social identity: a sense of belonging to the social world.” (McLeod 2008) In this movie there are five adolescents trying to find themselves and fit in within the groups they currently belong or have migrated into; the exception of one, Allison who acts out in mannerism that isolates her which is easier than trying to fit it. Andy and Claire belong to the ‘cool/popular kids’ the jocks, the cheerleaders the prom queens.…
Belonging is an essential division of life for individuals and a group as it creates a sense of security and trust, and can in turn influence beliefs, experiences and perspectives people have on the world around them. Belonging to a group involves effective communication with other individuals and a sense of security on both sides. The exceptional memoir The Happiest Refugee by Anh Do reveals how belonging to a group can influence one’s life course, morals and values, both positively and negatively. Having a positive sense of belonging can lead to having an easy and comfortable relationship, which in turn can lead to having a better outlook on the world. Anh and his family belonged to Vietnam, but left because of the war going on at the time.…
There are four types of characteristics that can result in higher group status. The first is diffuse characteristics, which are observable personal attributes that have two or more states that are differentially evaluated, where each state is culturally associated with specific performance expectations and also with general performance expectations. An example of a diffuse characteristic in Remember the Titans is race. There are preconceived ideas about someone simply based off of the color of their skin, which can have a role in determining one’s status within a group. The next is specific characteristics which are very context dependent characteristics that are beneficial in one particular situation.…
The article entitled Transcending Oneself through Social Identification by Castano et al. talks about how social identity is shaped by group influence, how the two relate to each other and how personal identity can be shaped by group influence. At the beginning of this article, the word “Death” is mentioned because most people are afraid of dear at the end of their lives. As it is stated in this article, “Being is eternal, and life and death are just two forms of existence, the Hindus tradition suggests” (p.311). This means that even though people think that after death there is no life anymore for them; actually there still is one which will be different than their previous life. As it is mentioned in this article “social identity seems particularly…
Nature’s affect on Mankind Nature vs. Nurture is the argument that either nature or nurture determines one’s lifestyle and characteristics. Development of the body and an individual’s sex determines nature because of the body’s natural functions. The body’s functions in development are influenced by hormones. Nature influences the human need to be apart of a group.…
A cultural identity and genetic characteristics establish a sense of belonging holding values of factors how cultural communication share mutual components and dissimilarities base on their identity or through trait which may separate an individual uniqueness and abilities to communication differently amongst other cultural social group. In addition, by being categorized as a minority verses the majority based on their identity and label seems to cause complexity and intercept with a person’s rules, and gestures. By mainly speaking in ways to apply the integral language as a way to communicate. Individuals may understand how these articles expressed a sense of belonging as a force in being at a disadvantage based on biases instead of an advantage…
Everyone belongs to different kinds of groups. These groups’ controls people 's daily life and control their behavior. Social group also influences people’s decision, such as people will do things which is correct in societal view. When people think of groups they think of a bunch of…
It is common for humans to belong to a particular group. In almost all social settings, it is rare to find someone there by themself. While there is no problem with belonging to a group, problems begin to arise when humans allow others to pressure and influence their decisions. As a result of this, humans start to lose their character. In Doris Lessing’s article, “Group Minds” and Solomon E. Asch’s article, “Opinions and Social Pressures” they both were on the right track when they stated that humans lose their individualism when subjecting to social pressures.…