When everyone is done eating, the guys sit around and discuss who will represent the house of the family and who will go and negotiate with the other side, the bride’s side. After agreeing on everything, two messengers are sent to tell the bride’s parent, “Please don’t look for your daughter because our son have taken her as his bride.” Small gifts are exchange say money or cigarettes and then the messengers return to the groom’s house with the news of the date of negotiations. If the bride’s parent doesn’t approve, the mother will rush over to the groom’s house and “beat the crap out of the bride” and tries to take her back home. It’s really a test to see if the groom really loves their daughter and they just want the best for
When everyone is done eating, the guys sit around and discuss who will represent the house of the family and who will go and negotiate with the other side, the bride’s side. After agreeing on everything, two messengers are sent to tell the bride’s parent, “Please don’t look for your daughter because our son have taken her as his bride.” Small gifts are exchange say money or cigarettes and then the messengers return to the groom’s house with the news of the date of negotiations. If the bride’s parent doesn’t approve, the mother will rush over to the groom’s house and “beat the crap out of the bride” and tries to take her back home. It’s really a test to see if the groom really loves their daughter and they just want the best for