Initially, with the constant development of society, the interchange of modern marriage values is diversified. Values resolve people 's demeanor and actions against their environment, and for American values, it is an assimilation of various cultures. It emphasizes the importance of individualism, that Americans have an abundance time and money to focus on realizing their personal value. Constructing a personal space and building personal growth still happens in marriage life, and it becomes more and more well-known tendency among Americans. The special value towards marriage, divorce becomes the biggest reason that causes remarriage in America.
Nevertheless, complementary in families has become less and less over the years. One of the symbols that represents this is when society came to industrial age of preindustrial age is the adjustment of family systems. Among the development of society, family is not at all a system that only can propose economic security, or education for people anymore. Society diminishes or changes many functions which allegedly belong to families and make people stop relying on it. Because of this, the importance of family relatively weakens. With the result that marriage rate decreases and divorce rate rise. Accordingly, about half of Americans ' marriages end up with divorce, but expectant Americans not in the least fear, frustrations such as the seventy percent of Americans has at least divorced once. Most American marriages are considered to be a choice for personal happiness. Whereas, in many societies, marriage is an economic agreement, an alliance bounded by two families. Occasionally, such marriages are organized, in which the bride and groom do not even meet before the wedding. Also, compared to American marriages, it’s the choice of the people who live in other more traditional countries that correlates with a set of specific social and economic factors. American females are economically independent and they are chivalrous enough to give up an unhappy marriage, even for the females who economically confide on their spouse or families would like to choose divorce, because they could have quite a number of family assets or valuables after the divorce. Furthermore, with the upcoming of modern society, the demand of love becomes progressively more prominent and significant for people. In addition, to appease material life, people also persevere for satisfying emotional life. However, Americans feel begrudging with their marriage, instead of trying their hardest to cherish or conserve it, they choose to dissolve …show more content…
The arrangement of members within stepfamilies is a very complex system. Maybe both of the parents will bring their children from the last marriage to live with them or have them over to visit, and the atmosphere amidst the Stepfamily members may be uncomfortable or antipathetic. Regardless for a husband or wife, the infrastructure of stepfamilies is neither effortless nor uncomplicated. In addition, the children, are also convoluted in this situation, and most of them will feel apathetic and defenseless. Also, children living in remarriage families need time to adapt, and sometimes this process turns out to be a stressful time for