We also live in a world were love is fantasized, and a women longs for their knight in shining armor to sweep them off their feet. Women wants a man that is willing do anything for their love and will never hurt them. No one wants to see that love is no fairy tale nor does love cast away what is most dear.
Therefore, love is a choice and the choice to love someone will mean that you will choose …show more content…
When we love God’s way we will lay down our lives for the one we love. We will let go of our rights and what we deserve when we choose to let love reign in our hearts. The greatest thing a child of God can do is to love with 1 Corinthians 13 kind of love for all. Furthermore, this kind of love is not a love that comes naturally. I know for myself that after you have been deeply hurt, you get the attitude I will not be treated that way. We stand guard over our heart and emotions almost daring someone to cross the line we have drawn. We say and think things like, “I will not go thought that again,” “I will not be a doormat for no man,” or “I refuse to let anyone treat me like that” All these statement shows us that something is wrong in our heart.
For this reason, we should stop looking at how other people act and treat us, and know their behavior will never excuse us for our wrong reaction. If fact God tells us to turn the other cheek, to blessed them that does us harm, to be kind to the unthankful, and to overcome evil with good. I somehow forget that this is God’s way with the people I am closes with. I am coming to realized that the real Melanie is the Melanie with her husband, children, mother and