Parents seem like they always push their kids to do something that they don’t want to do. Have you ever wondered why parents often force their children to do things they don’t want to do? “You want me to be someone that I’m not” (Tan 231). “Two Kinds” by Amy Tan. The conflict in the story was that Jing-mei’s mother wanted her to be a prodigy but she didn’t want to listen to her mother.…
Both of the motherly figures are similar in their goals for their own daughters. The author evokes that they both use strategies to assist their daughters in order to help them gain status. Panttaja says, “these two women share the same devotion to their daughters and the same long-term goals: each mother wants to ensure a future of power and prestige for her daughter, and each is willing to resort to extreme measures to achieve her aim” (288). Panttaja states in her article that the two mothers have a strong influence on their daughters and their actions. They are able to assist their daughters achieve status through power and plots.…
In the essay, If You Are What You Eat Then What Am I? The author is struggling with finding herself. She is stuck between two different cultures, The Indian culture and the America culture. Throughout the authors essay she uses food as imagery to compere her problems with here culture and the culture she’s living in now. Is she part of the American culture now or is she still apart of the Indian culture even though she no longer lives in her home country.…
Their family is extremely close, but all the sisters have very different personalities. Throughout their life they are heavily exposed to the corruption and injustice of the Trujillo regime and eventually all the sisters…
This mother-daughter relationship was affected by the death of Tita’s father when she was born and since then Mama Elena hasn’t form any bond with her daughter. Responsibility and selfishness are the main reasons why Tita and Mama Elena don’t get along. Both of them share a characteristic that shows their conflicts with each other. Mama Elena herself suffered from the lost of her husband which is an important fact to Tita’s deprivation. The reaction of each of them to their needs define their differing characters.…
She never got good meal, or safe house. But most importantly, her alcoholic father was the one who bothers her the most. When he is drunk, he becomes violent and sometimes he gets into a fight with his wife, which…
She is very detached from her family, including her mother who she tries to avoid and carelessly leads into trouble. Her defiant actions suggest that she is trying to rebel against her family’s beliefs and traditions by trying to be her own person without being told who she should be and how to act like. The narrator is so used to getting in trouble that she even mentions a couple of times that, “I was use to the…
She explains throughout her book the abandonment that she felt after her father left them. She expresses that she would call her father and yell and cuss at him when she was an adolescent and how difficult it was for her mother to…
She had to tell herself on a daily basis that her mother did indeed love her very much and the only reason she had accepted to go was to give them that big house they always dreamed of and that happily ever after they all so deeply yearned for. That dream is crushed when she takes her own journey to “El Otro Lado” and came to the realization that nothing was as she dreamed it would…
This is a direct result of changing and maturing through her living situation as a child. She still loves her family throughout her life, so therefore harbors neither resentment nor anger toward them and the way they raised her. However, as an adult, she no longer gives her parents the free pass she afforded them as a child. In Plato’s, The Allegory of the Cave, it says, “In the knowable realm the form of the good is the last thing to be seen, and it is reached only with difficulty” (Plato 5).…
Mothers and daughters have different points of view about dreams in their lives. Mothers draw in their minds the kind of life their daughters will be in the future. They do not consider their expectations are far away from their daughters dreams. In this world, mothers and daughters do not conceive the same thoughts about someone future. Mothers regularly make plans towards their daughters’ lives without thinking their daughters have other plans which differ from them.…
In the passage from Confetti Girl, the narrator's opinion that her father may say that she's important, but she's not, and in the passage from Tortilla Sun, the narrator's opinion that her mother only cares about what her mother thinks and not about what the narrator thinks is what creates tension in both stories. In the passage from Confetti Girl the narrator thinks that while her father says she matters, once he "goes on a scavenger hunt for a book"(paragraph 26) she realizes that she doesn't matter. This is basically the difference of viewpoints between the narrator and her father. This leads to tension in the story, because the narrator starts to neglect her father's efforts to help her.…
Also, these two women’s’ life experiences and family relationships caused them to value their family even more further in the book. Both women implement teachings from their childhood, onto the two children. For example, Laila’s father emphasized the importance of schooling to Laila, and as a result, Laila does the same to her children. Furthermore, because of the women’s realization of the absence of the strong family relationship in their childhood, they both tried to be active in the children’s lives and develop that relationship for themselves. For example, following Aziza’s release into the orphanage, Laila continued to visit her in spite of the grave risk she was taking.…
The narrator and her sister, Vanessa appear to be good children who listen to their parents commands, and we can see that from “Mum hisses, “Try and look hungry kids.” I suck in my belly as far as possible,..., Vanessa sinks her head to her chest and shrinks with not-wanting-to-be-here. ”(5-9) Both the narrator and her sister do not question their parents and do as needed. We can also determine that the father is the man of the family, meaning, he is the leader of the family and both the children and the mother follow him. “If Dad starts tearing tickets and his face becomes folded and deep, we feel ourselves become quiet and wishing-we-weren’t-here.…
In the short story “Two Kinds” by Amy Tan, a relationship is shown between a mother and daughter that exemplifies the complexities and intricacies between the two. Throughout the story, the mother chooses to showcase different musical talents towards her daughter, in hope that her daughter masters one and becomes a “child prodigy.” Meanwhile, the daughter chooses to find herself through her own means rather than through the dreams of her mother, which sets the theme of how the expectations of a parent can lead to resentment from the child, especially when the child fails or struggles to reach the expectations of the parent. The voracious love between mother and daughter, supported by the tale of the harrowing journey the mother has already…