Has anyone ever imagined what it is like to be in between parents when arguing? Today over forty five percent of parents are divorced. Divorces are known to be one of the most stressful thing to go through in a life. Divorced parents may cause many issues in a child 's life by the splitting of a home, differents co parenting and living arrangements. This is many reasons why a child is depressed from living in split homes.
Always getting along with a spouse can be a very rare thing. In fact, fighting in a relationship may be healthy. It can help fix many problems and get solutions, But when fighting and arguing a lot in front of children it can cause many emotional problems too. Seeing fights can cause children to have low self esteem and are more likely to have relationship problems on their own in the near future. Fights can also lead to getting physical and cause each other to slam and break many things. Having fights very often can cause a child to feel very uncomfortable being home or to be around its parents. About seventy percent of children are uncomfortable living in a home with both parents when going through a divorce. Over sixty percent of parents are divorced due to the fact of adultery. Adultery is to cheat on a spouse when married to another man or women. When cheating it is mostly found that the other partner is a close friend or a neighbor. About sixty percent of the time a divorce is caused by a man. When men go out of town to work it is more likely for them to find a woman and to cheat. This then leads to losing interest in his wife and gives all attention to a new girlfriend. This is when fighting in a relationship and having trust issues begin. Children are affected a lot by this because of the fact of the parent is giving the new spouse all the attention, the child then feels as if they have nobody to talk to or will get jealous because of the attention not being put on the child. Although parents try to work things out and try to get along for the children it does not always work out all of the time. …show more content…
Children are the main reason why parents do not want to get a divorce or to be divorced. Parents do not want to see a child be hurt and upset because its parents are not together. Parents also do not want a split household for children or to carry the guilt of having a divorce. After getting a divorce parents start to lack on having parenting skills. Parents will start to worry more of themselves than of a child. Parents will end up feeling lonely and want to have a partnership with a different person. This means the parent will start to focus on bettering her or himself rather than worry about a child and the needs the child has to meet. The problem with this is children learn and live by what they see. Seeing a parent who doesn 't give out attention can be a major problem. This may cause a child to be depressed.
Depression is a feeling a lot of children and adults feel or have felt. Depression in a divorce is very common to go through. When a child has depression, he or she may not know it or will not talk about it to anyone because they don 't know about depression or to scared to say something about feeling that kind of way. Depression is also very common for children to be affected by it. Seventy five percent of children who come from divorced parents or who are now living with one parent are depressed. Seeing both parents every day when children are growing up in a divorce is very uncommon. Not having a father or mother around everyday in a child 's life when growing up is hard. Most parents that are divorced, have split custody, meaning the mother and father both see a child during the year or the one parent will have full custody, meaning the mother can decide whether or not the father can see the father and have all rulings. Living in two different households can be very different, uncomfortable, and difficult for a child to adjust to. One parent may be very strict and the other parent being very lenient. Parenting differently to a child can
Always getting along with a spouse can be a very rare thing. In fact, fighting in a relationship may be healthy. It can help fix many problems and get solutions, But when fighting and arguing a lot in front of children it can cause many emotional problems too. Seeing fights can cause children to have low self esteem and are more likely to have relationship problems on their own in the near future. Fights can also lead to getting physical and cause each other to slam and break many things. Having fights very often can cause a child to feel very uncomfortable being home or to be around its parents. About seventy percent of children are uncomfortable living in a home with both parents when going through a divorce. Over sixty percent of parents are divorced due to the fact of adultery. Adultery is to cheat on a spouse when married to another man or women. When cheating it is mostly found that the other partner is a close friend or a neighbor. About sixty percent of the time a divorce is caused by a man. When men go out of town to work it is more likely for them to find a woman and to cheat. This then leads to losing interest in his wife and gives all attention to a new girlfriend. This is when fighting in a relationship and having trust issues begin. Children are affected a lot by this because of the fact of the parent is giving the new spouse all the attention, the child then feels as if they have nobody to talk to or will get jealous because of the attention not being put on the child. Although parents try to work things out and try to get along for the children it does not always work out all of the time. …show more content…
Children are the main reason why parents do not want to get a divorce or to be divorced. Parents do not want to see a child be hurt and upset because its parents are not together. Parents also do not want a split household for children or to carry the guilt of having a divorce. After getting a divorce parents start to lack on having parenting skills. Parents will start to worry more of themselves than of a child. Parents will end up feeling lonely and want to have a partnership with a different person. This means the parent will start to focus on bettering her or himself rather than worry about a child and the needs the child has to meet. The problem with this is children learn and live by what they see. Seeing a parent who doesn 't give out attention can be a major problem. This may cause a child to be depressed.
Depression is a feeling a lot of children and adults feel or have felt. Depression in a divorce is very common to go through. When a child has depression, he or she may not know it or will not talk about it to anyone because they don 't know about depression or to scared to say something about feeling that kind of way. Depression is also very common for children to be affected by it. Seventy five percent of children who come from divorced parents or who are now living with one parent are depressed. Seeing both parents every day when children are growing up in a divorce is very uncommon. Not having a father or mother around everyday in a child 's life when growing up is hard. Most parents that are divorced, have split custody, meaning the mother and father both see a child during the year or the one parent will have full custody, meaning the mother can decide whether or not the father can see the father and have all rulings. Living in two different households can be very different, uncomfortable, and difficult for a child to adjust to. One parent may be very strict and the other parent being very lenient. Parenting differently to a child can