Responding to the strong biological pull of the values of motherhood, is sufficient motivation to a life as a single parent. These unmarried women want to “fulfill their noble tasks of motherhood”(Irwin,p. 132). One of the motivations is they feel a sense of loneliness because many of them experience the sentiments of insufficiency and uneasiness in a society surrounded by people who are in harmonious conjugal relationships(Irwin, p.131). Moreover, even though the numbers of “women are unlikely to marry, they “need a child to take care of them in their old age” (Irwin,p.132). A state program has been implemented to “encourage women to adopt an intensified focus on their bodies as the locus of their ‘femaleness’” (Irwin, p.132). Motherhood, is one of the most unforgettable periods in women’s life and for some offering a sense of achievement. In a deeper sense, it is a period when “maternal desire becomes embedded in the female body” (Irwin, 134), which is securely attached with it and what offers them genuine bliss is to have and foster children. The gendered identity of women is also constructed through discourse while all women share a common understanding (maternal identity). They value the importance of being a “mother” and the mothering role not only makes women mature psychologically, for some, …show more content…
Internet matchmaking has transform the process creating novel phenomenon. Its “ubiquitous presence” enable numbers of women to consider the possibilities in searching for a spouse abroad as one potential method in achieving a better life outside of their remote towns. Furthermore, the Internet matchmaking services are quite specific in their objectives, matching men from “wealthy industrialize countries” with women from the third world in eastern Europe. Such men claim that “ of their countries were too emancipated [and] could not show or receive tenderness”, whereas the stereo typical of Russian woman is “feminine and submissive” (Irwin,146), by which they mean submitting to outmoded social norms. The Internet matchmaker may also provided male and female customers with access to knowledge about each other’s culture building a particular picture of the gendered desires of Western men and Russian women (Irwin,150). Internet matchmaking may not alter the migrants’ goals, but it makes for more informed