If he wasn’t drinking in the first place who’s to say he might not have the stress of the new job he has now which he’s bringing onto the family. I see the main character in a life struggle that most average human beings find themselves in, the struggle of caring for family. I believe that he is a hard worker and that he wants to provide for his family, but he just can’t deal with the battles that have been thrown his way. He knows that his family is falling apart and isn’t happy but he needs to take action and cope with the stress better. While lying in bed with his wife we understand that she just found out she was pregnant yet again, of course my mind jumps ahead to picture how they our going to be able to be…
His decision to start drinking is shown by “... Jeff and Dad had been drinking for two days (141)”. This decision not only affects Miles and Harry in a very negative way it also uses valuable money that could be used to buy food. Dad might of started drinking when the family started to become poor and this action show that the father is trying escape his circumstances without considering what would happen to MIles and Harry. Another decision that the father makes is to not regularly order food this can be seen in “There was still no bread...…
In “Under The Influence” by Scott Russell Sanders, he articulates his childhood as being a son of an alcoholic. Sanders has his first encounter with alcoholism at a very young age as he found his father drinking. Soon, his father becomes verbally abusive towards his family. Sanders shares insecurities that came with his drunk father such as believing that if Sanders had been a more perfect child, it would have stopped his father from turning to alcohol. As an alcoholic, his father becomes a different person while under the influence.…
He took what little money we did have and ran away to get drunk.” (pg150) His dad’s action can lead to believe that he was not the only person on the reserve who would get drunk when facing problems with money. Poverty plays a big role in the substance and violence abuse that was shown in the…
The consequences of alcohol consumption can be severe, especially for the poor. Alcoholics spend all of the money they have to sustain their addiction, and in return can cause their family to face extreme consequences such as not being able to afford clothes, rent, or even food. Alcoholics do whatever they can to get their hands on alcohol, while their family is doing whatever they can to survive. In The Glass Castle, Rex Walls serves as an example of how alcoholism can have serious financial consequences and severely affect a family. Alcoholism is defined as an addiction to the consumption of alcohol, or the mental illness and compulsive behavior resulting from dependency on alcohol.…
In “Under The Influence,” Scott Russell Sanders, an American novelist, essayist, and teacher at Indiana University, talks about his life with his alcoholic father and how it affected him and still affects him to this day. He grew up watching his father battle with alcoholism. He experienced how his father was with alcohol and how he pushed away all the people who tried to help him. As an adult, he is wary of alcohol and developed depression due to struggles he had as a child. Even though his father is long dead his dad’s actions still haunt him.…
From the moment that Aanakwad fell in love with the other man, the grandfather feared her and became very bitter towards her. “For he was afraid of his wife’s bad temper, and it was he who roused Aanakwad into anger by the sheer fact that he was himself and not the other.” No matter how much the grandfather tried, he could not recapture her love and because of that he lost respect for her. Despite the fact that the grandfather loved her he had to admit that their life together was no longer a happy one. Having to say goodbye to Aanakwad was not an easy thing for the grandfather and he was not satisfied with the outcome, therefore he held a grudge against Aanakwad.…
Not only would he lie about drinking, but he would also hide alcohol around the house. Sanders goes on to describe his father as “ kind” when sober but a “fearful stranger”…
The author didn’t understand this concept when alcoholism had first consumed his father. He blamed himself for not being able to help his plagued father quit drinking. The author writes “I tell myself he drinks to ease an ache that gnaws at his belly, an ache that I must have caused by disappointing him somehow, a murderous ache I should be able to relieve” (88). Using statements like “disappointing” and “murderous ache I should be able to relieve”, Sanders shows that he felt guilty for not being able to help his alcoholic father, even though he feels as though he should be able to. This guilt destroys him as a person as his focus is in trying to help his father.…
What makes alcohol have such a detrimental impact on society? Way back when, before the prohibition, alcohol was the preferred drink of daily Americans; it was a way to relax, a means for fun, and even a way for people to bond. There were no problems with drinking, so it seemed. Then came the woman’s suffrage movement, pushing for stark reforms in the constitution such as the right to vote, equal working conditions, etc. but also, the end to a long time abuse of the drug we all take for granted – alcohol.…
MM feels that she needs to mention these particular issues every so often. She feels he is like a child himself. He does well for a while and then needs to be reminded. The only reason she confronts him about his drinking is because she is afraid he will loose his…
Substance Abuse Harms Others Neither John, Gwen, nor Miguel began taking drugs with the intention of harming others. Nor were they aggressive or abusive in nature. Yet their long-term substance abuse harmed others, including family members, friends, and the communities in which they lived. John’s substance abuse had negative consequences for his family and his community.…
In his essay “Under The Influence,” he talks about his alcohol obsessed father. The father treated his son terribly because he was often under the influence of alcohol. Although it sounds like an essay in which the father is mean to his son all the time, his terrible actions truly shape his son into a man who was better than his father. The son in “Under the Influence” by Scott Russell Sanders learns how to become a better man by learning, from watching his father’s actions, what not to do. In the essay, the father is an alcohol who most of the time tries to play it off and act sober in front of his son.…
Children often do not understand the impact of the things they see. From Frank McCourt’s point of view as a child, his thoughts are directly written down and we see how he saw the world in a naive way and bluntly tells us the story of his hard life. Franks view of his father shows us that he never understands that alcoholism has taken over his father's life, and he cannot get better from that point. He never sees his father as a bad guy at first until later when he grows up, “I feel sad over the bad things but I can’t back away from him because the one in the morning is my real father and if I were in America I could say, I love you, Dad, the way they do in the films”(210). Frank doesn’t understand alcoholism and calls it the ‘bad thing’, and…
As an emotional system, substance abuse and mental illnesses runs rapid in my family. Alcoholism has been passed down through my father’s side of the family and the act of not becoming an alcoholic is a conscience decision every day. All of the substance abuse began when my brothers moved out of the house so my father felt as if there was nothing he could do about it. The drugs certainly put a strain on the family dynamics. Because of the substance abuse and mental illness issues, anxiety was a constant problem.…