both subjected to the brutality, and humiliation of a black living in the racist south. His father was a sharecropper and the same holds true for my maternal grandfather as well. where there was no value to a black both my parents come from large families. My mother had seventeen brothers and sisters; my dad had eleven brothers and sisters (one died at birth). As a result, I find it hard to imagine either of them having a platform at home. There was little or no conversation about the Civil…
most is that my family had moved from Kansas to California. My mom and dad were no longer together so we left him behind. When I heard that he had passed away all I could think of was, when was the last time I had actually seen him or spent time with him. “ You’re dad he’s been in an accident” uttered my mother. All I heard this night was that he had been in a car crash and had died. But that…
ever gotten on a family trip and wondered if it could possibly change the way you see life? Well, let me tell you that this exact thing happened to me last Fourth of July. When you are on your teenager years a person only think of one thing and that’s you, yourself, and you again. That’s what I had on my mind before going to this marvelous trip, but how I saw my future before I went, and how I saw it when I came back and were very different. How could a mere and inoffensive family trip became…
My parents grew up very differently. My mother was born on November 18,1965 and had a white mother and a black father. In the time period she was in, being biracial and having a biracial family was not the norm. She spent most of her life with her mother because her parents had divorced and her father soon died. Walking down the street with her sister and mother, they would get constant stares from people, of either confusion or disgust. Wondering what a white woman was doing with two black…
with him for either the weekend or the month of July, I embraced all the wonders of my Latin family. Latino culture entails prodigious amounts of cooking, and we always cooked Uruguayan food; it was almost taboo to eat out. From flan to the glorious empanadas, my family always ate homemade meals. Yet, I do not connect to that heritage by only cooking; I connect to my heritage through my family. My family signifies the foremost aspect of my life. My visits with my father would always consist…
My family of origin was comprised of my parents, myself, and my younger brother. David was born three years after me, and we filled the functional roles of “oldest child” and “youngest child” perfectly. As described by McGoldrick, Gerson, & Petry (2008), “oldest children are likely to be the over responsible and conscientious ones in the family” (p.126). I was always expected to perform academically and conduct myself with high moral standards. I did as was expected, and I do not remember…
My mother and family feel the same way about my friends that are different than us. One year while I was in college during the Easter break I had to stay an extra day at school. While I was there I noticed that there were still some girls left at school in my sorority house. I asked why they weren’t going home for the weekend and they told me that they were Jewish so it wasn’t an important holiday to be home. There was no reason to go home if their families were not all getting together. I…
to Chicago to visit my dad, chaos continued to increase and our love never found its way back to normal to what it used to be. Growing up in a rough environment made me do a lot of research on different beliefs and answers to how I could change my family, how I could bring everyone back together in peace and harmony, and how I could let love back into the picture. As I was shopping one day I came across a very big man the store that day. Intrigued by the physical appearance and the information…
Being born into a Jewish family in Mexico, religion was constantly present through my childhood. I went to a Kosher, Jewish school from Pre-K to second grade, where Hebrew and Jewish history were as an integral part of school as math and science. Although my family is not orthodox, we did celebrate all of the Jewish holidays from Hanukkah to Tish’a B’Av. It was only when me, my parents, and my sister moved to Florida, that I left the tight knit Jewish community that I had been a part of for my…
father Jacob. Since then, William Voyles’ descendants have spread throughout the Midwest and West. Since William, the Voyles family became rich in Native American heritage. According to my grandpa, our Native American ancestry goes back generations…