Becoming a parent changed my life in different ways. For instance, I was never able to sleep the same way I used to. Also, I became more conscious and responsible about my decisions and how they could affect those around me. Lastly, time is very limited, to the point that I have to make time for “my own time”. There is no preparing for this transition or advices on how to embrace the differences until you’re a parent. I was never able to sleep the same way I used to once the babies were born.…
My parents decided to get a divorce less than two years ago, in fact, this weekend marks the two-year anniversary of the day they decided to split up. The Sunday after Thanksgiving; it is a day that no one in my family will ever forget I am sure. The four of us were sitting around the square, wooden dinner table eating leftover turkey and stuffing. Mom and Dad had been fighting since we had gotten home from church. Alex and I had spent the remainder of the morning hiding upstairs with our…
Your parents are basic examples of teachers, they are your teachers for life. You learn from their mistakes and you try to surpass them in all that they do. What I have learned from my parents is that life is unfair. Early in my life I never noticed the little things happening around me. My parents would fight, who's did not, but I paid them no mind as I was focused on what candy I could sneak in my room. When we moved to a new place, I noticed things, things I'd never noticed before. My…
single parent home. My mother was not very involved due to her previous relationship. Therefore, My grandparents are the one who nurtured me. Both of my grandparents are authoritarian. They have very strict rules about my decision-making. They did not approve any of my choices because they thought they knew better. Especially, my grandfather, he always wanted me to do more and not be confirmative. I think since I was the youngest and my sister pretty much did their own decision because my…
going to be talking about how I’m going to parent my kid(s). My parenting skills are kinda going to be like my mom’s but I’m not going to do everything the same way she does it because she doesn’t really let me do anything or go anywhere and when I become a parent I am actually going to let my kid(s) go out and do stuff and have fun doing whatever it is they are doing as long as it’s not something that will get them in trouble. I am going to be strict like my mom but just not as strict as she is…
paperwork, she realized how hard her adoptive parents worked to adopt her, and she appreciated that. Even though meeting her sister and learning about her life did not go as she imagined, she finally got the closure she wanted and needed. There are, however, less understanding endings to finding birth parents. Lisa Lutz’s article “I Found My Biological Parents, and Wish I Hadn’t” talks about having nothing in common with either of her birth parents. Her mother was angry at first when Lisa…
What I went Through During My Parents Divorce As long as they talk it out t will be ok , right? I didn’t like the idea of having two of everything. I thought how do you divide 3 into 2 and then how would that work in different locations. I also wondered how my siblings felt about the situation. Were they as confused as I was and would this be a permanent change in my life? I was about 4 years old when my parents got divorced. I always took blame for things that i knew wasn't me,but I wasn't…
A child requires a solid moral upbringing in order to understand how to make right moral decisions. Robert Coles’ piece “I Listen to My Parents and Wonder What They Believe” discusses the role that parents play in a moral upbringing and the effect that little to no moral guidance has on children. He chronicles his interviews of several children discussing and considering the necessity of moral guidance. Moral guidance is necessary because through morals, children learn how to distinguish right…
In Robert Coles’ article, I Listen to My Parents and I Wonder What They Believe, he argues children perceive ethical issues and need guidance to develop their moral principles. Coles interviews numerous children and asks them questions regarding their moral beliefs. He uses the children’s moral questions and answers as evidence for his argument. Coles urges parents to engage with their children’s moral education to help their children avoid finding ‘wrong’ answers, and to help them establish a…
In “I Listen to My Parents and I Wonder What They Believe,” Robert Coles discusses the problem of moral abdication. Robert Coles, a psychologist, uses his experience counseling students to analyze what leads to children misunderstanding morals. Children need morality to guide them and help them make moral decisions. However, children are influenced by the adults in their lives and often those adults only confuse them morally. Also, children who grow up without moral standards then influence…