Romantic relationship is also a personal value I cherish dearly. I want to live my life in a way that I cherish the love of my life forever by loving him till the day I die, cherish his amazing personality, and showing my love so gracefully. He is the love of my life …show more content…
Like it states on page 18 of the Solving the Puzzle of Life handbook, “Whatever will be, will be.” Throughout my life my mother would sing a song that said, “Que sera, sera. Whatever will be, will be. The future 's not ours to see. Que sera, sera. What will be, will be.” There has been several decisions I have applied this style to: deciding what I say to confront a friend would hurt their feelings or not, deciding what to wear, and deciding a birthday gift for my twin sister. My personality (ESFJ) and values relate to choosing a decision making style because I do not like hurting others feelings, but I have remind myself that whatever happens, …show more content…
This year around September I heard her say that she like Kavu bags, so I was on a search for the perfect one. Her favorite color is yellow, I thought that is the perfect color bag for her. However, when I went to a store that sold them they only had a variety of them, and I decided to wait and look online. As I was looking online, several Kavu bags caught my attention, but they would not be here in time for her birthday. I went back to the store that sold the bags and looked and found one similar to mine, polka dotted, and said that she will have to deal with the option I chose even though I was scared she would not like it. Come to find out she is totally in love with the bag I got her. This decision making style helped me realize that I just have to do what I can and not worry about the outcome. My personality type (ESFJ) means Extraverted Sensing Feeling Judging which relates to my personality a lot. This type of personality wears their heart on their sleeves, always finishes what is started, uses their five senses, is wounded easily, and they love people. All of these describes who I am, and I would not change them for the world. Everyone is unique in their own way, no one has the same way of approaching things even if they have the same personality type. Personality explains how others look at a person and point out what is good and bad about an