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How to be sexy:
How to be sexy, or another words, how to get to know your unique sexuality and become comfortable using it.
So much of what is broadcasted as ‘sexy’ in our society focuses on the physicality of sexuality. When I I was researching for this article, I did the classic ‘google my assignment question’ technique. What I found was a little disconcerting. One of the top results on my search browser was an article by an magazine that I both read and love. However, the whole article basically read that as females, to be considered sexy, one must always wear super tight dresses (red or black only please). Always wear high heels to work, and never leave the house without a perfect pedi, a Victoria Secret blowout and 'I just came back from the Bahamas tan’!
Wow, that sounds so expensive, and not to mention time consuming, you would actually have zero time left in your day for sex, or any other fun activities sexy individuals like to do, such as cooking or working out! I think it 's clear that these physical ideals for 'sexiness ' are both super unrealistic and a little stressful. So, on that note, I would like to introduce a different, more modern spin on ‘how to be sexy’. To learn how to be sexy, we have to understand what sexiness is. Is is simply multiple small actions we take with the main goal of having sex? Perhaps not. I think ‘sexuality’ is a very important and powerful part of our personality that can make us feel attractive, strong and independent. Like our voice, hands and eyes, its unique to everyone and can help build self love and great relationships, both platonic and romantic. So, to learn how to be sexy, think about a time when you felt you best; your most comfortable, generous, beautiful and kind? For some of us, contrary to what I said above, this may include taking time out to get out nails done and do our hair. For others, its might be doing a yoga class or doing weights in the gym. Or perhaps its when your cooking for loved ones or when your at work or school, doing what you love. What ever it is, weather your wearing sweat pants or a beautiful dress, weather your in public or curled up in bed with a book. Find out what makes your feel amazing and bottle it up, because that my friend is sexiness! Ask anyone; man or women, what they consider sexy? …show more content…
They will generally pause and then describe a person who is comfortable with who they are, looks like they are having a great time and is open to interactions with others.
So, to be a bit more specific, I want to give you my tips and tricks for looking, acting and most importantly feeling your sexiest and best!
*before I begin, I want to talk quickly about slut shaming or in other words, making other people feel ashamed for looking or acting in a way that you might not agree with. This is just not cool. Every person has the right to express themselves without being judged and bullied. There is nothing wrong with liking attention! When we start being okay with other expressing themselves, we give ourselves the power to act, dress and look however we want! Okay, rant over Lets begin.
Smile: I know this sounds simple, but smiling actually released endorphins into the body, giving us an automatic ‘happy/ sexy boost’. Its really difficult to feel sexy when we are sad. So try smiling, and if you really cant manage, grab a pen, and stick it between your teeth. The brain doesn 't know then difference! Wear what you love: I want to reiterate that sexiness in NOT skin deep. But how we express ourselves of the outside can have a massive affect on how we feel on the inside. Don 't let anyone make you feel like what you wear is ‘unacceptable’ or ‘wrong’. Your body is beautiful and you can dress it however you like, and I mean however you like! Weather you are a curvy sister or super slim, there are no rules! Lingerie: If your like me and have to wear a uniform to work (think