10). As this quote explains, it takes many small moments to develop character. As we each strive to find who we are, we come to develop patterns of habit that then shape our personal characters. It is important to develop character because who you are and what you believe in will influence your actions. Robert Knight mentions that, “Rather than people 'being what they eat', it is more suitable to describe them as 'being what they experience'.” (2012, para. 3) According to a new study led by Virginia Commonwealth University researchers. “Our life experiences, the ups and downs, and everything in between, shape us, stay with us and influence our character” (2011, Para. 1). The study that was done by Virginia University, concluded that, “The experiences people have, stay with the person and has an impact on his or her set points as an adult” (2011, para. 1). Our experiences can help shape our personality, and character, as we grow to come of age, we must go through experiences that will change our perspectives about the world. And as we begin to understand more about the world, through experience, we then will develop character. Your character will then give others a glimpse of what you have experienced, showing them the strength and maturity you have gained while coming of …show more content…
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